Cancel Dating to Efficiently find a Wife. This website is intended for men only if you are a woman tell your father Brothers or male friends about it.

STEP 2
buy a wedding band & wear it 

This shows you are committed to your values and future wife.
And set your public identity and status to preparing for marriage

Tell people you are not "single" 

- "I'm committed to my Values & My Future Wife

you are building up for your wife 

- be careful of people who do not talk about marriage and are ambiguous about their  current marital status. 

 STEP 3:  avoiding PMI
The original not watered down Orthodox religion emphasize no PMI
 

be thinking of ways to minimize PMI
You might be asking what this has to do with you and your marriage. It is about creating a culture that promotes marriage
You want a person with no attachments or memories or comparisons to other previous intimate partners, right?

Gender conscious environments
No physical contact
No eating together
Everyone lies about it but everyone knows what a guy is doing when he is talking and interacting with a woman
It's generally a sexual interest
Remove dishonest words like "seeing each other" in a relationship- instead say unmarried sexual
Sleeping
Significant other bf gf

 discuss what is ideal 

find ways to promote virginity pure culture
when people try to seduce each others future spouses 

and other peoples loved ones.

This is the reason no trust in society
Focus on ideals 

Women say it's a double standard and that they should be allowed to be the initiators for sexual activity and that woman should be allowed to be masculine and that this is a way of expressing their freedom 

I think both men and women should avoid premarital intimacy and be virgins because if all the women are virgins and the men have to be virgins as well mathematically speaking and even the quote unquote alpha males they if they want a virgin as well then they will have to be virgins 

The whole idea that seducing women is success and that virginity is bad is predatory and unclean 

Even if you are not a virgin like me my advice is to spend two to three years of celibacy and self intimacy and this will allow you to detach from previous intimate partners and recollect yourself and revirginize

Orient yourself around Woman's Flower, Vulva 

Rather than being penocentric (making primary focus on man's genitals and him getting off)

 or instead of focusing on women's  breasts 

or overempahsis on technology, cars pets and luxury experiences  

your wife and her Flower should be your primary source of peace. 

Vulva Flower Herself has such gravity that 

life's challenges can be tolerated. 

The mere existence of Her. 

The best way to see a woman is as having no soul in the men gives her his soul and life force and attention.

 want everyone to have a loving spouse 

you might think it's good to applaud promiscous men that that is "success" with women but it is in fact   being polyamorous and neglecting your future spouse 

may think that it's more strong to seek PMI
But actually more strong to commit to someone 

initiate debates with fellow man or if you are a woman, with your fellow woman. 

women- would you like a husband who you would want to look up to and follow? 

women- would you prefer to be a feminine woman 

men would you prefer to be a masculine leader man? 

 Men would you prefer to have a virgin woman 

Or have other men had intimacy with her. 

identifying predatory people 

anyone who is not your future wife is your "non-wife" so do not allow them to seduce you 

Men Should recognize that a woman is like a intergalactic black hole attractive amazing but will magnetize any of your spare time and money all guys know that they will give all their spare time and money to a woman so it's best to save it up for your wife rather than waste it on someone who you are not sure about

Assess a woman : 

When you observe a woman you should ask yourself if she seems physically attractive culturally attractive mentally attractive whether you want to meet with her and like her genetics for your children and whether she seems like she wants to be your number one fan and supporter helpmate cheerleader and would admire and look up to you

is she visually appealing to you

could you see yourself wanting to provide her oral sex? 

look at a woman 

if she shows receptive body language, 

approach her ask if she is looking for a husband 

if she says yes, offer her your name or business card 

tell her to look up your social media or website, where you describe yourself and your qualities and expectations of your future wife. 

it's not that she shouldnt have preferences as well, she should, 

but it's about letting her choose if she likes you and 

tell her if she does to message or email you 

tell her to tell her parents or close loved ones that you are interested in her 

finallly, DO NOT "DATE" talk or see each other in person. 

you can email discuss everything, and on the phone or webcam. talk about personal and intimate matters. 

the prsotitute paradox is that people seduce people they do not care about 

so if you FIRST establish that you are like brother and sister, spiritually, having the same values, 

this establishes trust that you will be honest about details of your life, sexual matters, financial matters... 

remember it's never about " I want x kind of woman " it's my wife WILL have xy&z qualities and want to follow me and my value system 

1. Why do people engage in sexual activity, besides the obvious recreation and procreation activities 

Please write down your thoughts and then consider mine 

2. I'm interested in an open conversation and debate because I think sexuality is the most important factor to consider to build a sustainable and trustworthy civilization

3. is dominance control manipulation distraction pleasure seeking not interest in loving or caring about someone avoiding 

4. Mental illness such as narcissism where they don't care about anyone except themselves 

People have sex because they don't care about getting an STD or a potential unwanted pregnancy and they become addicted to sex and therefore attached to certain people that they do not like would not marry or would certainly not have children with 

5. And this is forgetting that there is value in self intimacy including use of toys and pornography viewing and that it should be celebrated and not mocked because it is the key to understanding your own sexual interests such as what body type in genitalia you are interested in and the frequency and duration that you want intimacy 

6. and if we're being honest the life span of intimacy so how healthy and virile is the person that you want to be sexual with if you're going to marry them will you be able to have a full healthy sex life with them?

7. The sexual revolution aka feminism suggested that the reason to have sex is to is because women in particular should have the right to do whatever they want and that is the best expression of freedom and that woman should be able to act like men and be masculine and seductive and pursue sex 

8. I do think women should be able to choose who they marry however that just like men they should only be able to be intimate with who they marry 

9. The reality is when I say why sex I really also mean why intimacy because any form of intimacy will lead to attachment at least for one person and is a tease and is misleading because it suggests that you want to showcase yourself publicly or privately as a couple and sex and going on public dates and so on is a primary way that married people in the past showed that they were married people did not go on dates and present themselves to the public as being together unless they were married did you know that

10. There is an enormous amount of shame around sexual activity because people know it's wrong but they're unwilling to admit it or talk about it because they're ashamed so it's really bad to do something that you're not even willing to admit or openly discuss

11. Historically people use sex to Bond as a couple and have masculine and feminine polarity often with the man being the dominant one sexually and the woman being the submissive receptive one

I am not suggesting that it's a moral for men to want to be feminine and want their woman to be the leader or dominant in their marriage

12. Or that same sex couples cannot also choose what roles to play and maybe switch those roles and so on

13. What I'm suggesting is that these roles should be discussed and people should know who they are and what they want

14. Another main reason people say they want sex is in order to experiment and figure out what they want but

15. I don't see why people can't do that by themselves with sex and pornography and also fantasizing and imagining what type of person they are attracted to and what person might be attracted to them

16. The paradox is that people say that this experimentation and freedom from shame and boundaries is empowering and sex positive

17. But experimentation only makes sense if there are no downsides no serious downsides such as possible STDs unwanted memories unwanted attachments possible pregnancy distraction and interference with the process of preparing for your future spouse

18. When in fact if you want a long healthy marriage including regular access to safe sex

It requires everyone to be virgins until marriage

19. And the other huge upside is that everyone can trust each other more because they're not trying to seduce each other's future spouses they're not trying to seduce each other's brothers and sisters and loved ones

20. I have studied the group of men who seem to want multiple women and also have features that women want
These men end up being feminine because any relationship where it's not established that the man is a clear authority like a husband leader than the default is women because women are faster in social situations and talk more and therefore they typically dominate quote unquote relationships

So just as much as people could ask why do they have sex it could also be suggested why they don't have sex

One reason I think it's important to not have sex is because I consider myself a global citizen of the collective consciousness and I care about those who are suffering in poor countries and other third world problems and I do not want to engage in the gratification of a a fun and pleasureful marriage

Sex also implies other sexual things such as nudism pornography and strippers and internet interactions along with prostitution

People have sex with people they do not care about they exchange money for sex or body for body in other words sex for sex

But it is not based in love and commitment

And what's disturbing is women think that being a man is empowering when being a woman means making a man chase you and earn your body

Earn the privilege of your body because he is the man is able to focus and give you life commitment

Feminists May want to suggest otherwise by using terms like partnership that somehow it's not men's responsibility to offer a marriage proposal but we all know that that's what men do not women

Equivalently it's women's job to keep their body pure and do it for their ideal husband because women have a internal deception that if a man wants her body that also means that he would be willing to commit to her which is completely not true

In fact it's the opposite men who are only wanting to date do not want to commit

It is by definition predatory but women are also responsible women also choose to give their body to these predatory men and they need to be held accountable

How often
And do you want to have an erection

And what is your favorite sex act

Also, just because people say they like each other and would have sex

MEANS NOTHING

What is sexually attractive

Skin and health number one

Would like it would be larger penis vulva breasts ass